LOVING THE COLD MAN
She felt like she was throwing a knife into her own big toe. It wasn’t that she purposely looked for cold men. They were drawn to her strength. It was exciting for them to see her passionate and vulnerable.

November 10th 2009 -  











She felt like she was throwing a knife into her own big toe. It wasn’t that she purposely looked for cold men. They were drawn to her strength. It was exciting for them to see her passionate and vulnerable. But the closer she got to their heart and souls, the higher their boundaries became. She changed. She could feel herself turn into a tearful little girl. This irritated them. She couldn’t even figure herself out. She remembers the time she actually waited years for a guy to come around. Back and forth he came into her life, always running when things seemed perfect.



HERE ARE SOME REASONS MEN MAY BE COLD

 • He was hurt once and won’t let it happen again
 • He thinks he has more control if he is evasive
 • He loves to be needed but career always comes first
 • His mother always comes first {and that inheritance}
 • He loves to love from a distance.
 • He likes to conquer strong women. Its like winning a contract.
 • He’s repulsed by hormone drama
 • He likes it just the way it is. No promises.



EXCUSES FOR HANGING ON TO COLD MEN

 • If you hang on he will love you eventually
 • He’s hiding his true feelings
 • Even though he’s put you off for years, he’s your soul mate
 • As long as you’re his only woman it’s ok
 • If you entice him with great sex his heart will melt
 • He’s married. If you don’t complain he’ll leave her.



SIGNS YOUR WITH A COLD MAN

• Your supposed to read his silence. When you do, he rejects you.
• He entices you to go out behind your mates back. Then he rejects you high and dry. {Challenge over.}
• He won’t look you in the eyes
• When things get “real” he stops calling.
• He rejects you in public to sit by yourself
• He’s repulsed by emotional feelings

 SIGNS YOU ARE NOT READY TO HEAL

 • You confuse anxiety with sexual chemistry
 • The challenge to conquer his heart becomes tunnel vision
 • You turn off on men that are too nice {no challenge}
 • You call cold men “Intelligent.” You must have a “thinking man”
 • You see men sensitive to your needs as weak
 • You make excuses for his coldness, and wait…and wait.


Contact Member:
Ann Marie O'Dell - Personal Psychic Consultations by Phone or Studio

Early, IA 50535
United States
Credits:
Certified Psychic Psychic Life Transition Counselor